Keeping the Fire in Your Sex Life

Variety is the spice of life, right?  Is that why so many people cheat?  Is one person ever enough to satisfy another?  Honestly, I don’t think so and then I do. What it all comes down to is the agreement between two people.

Should that agreement include monogomy?  For most, I would say yes.  After all it is what society has shoved down our throat since the beginning of time and most people can’t get past the concept. However, you know what else has existed since the beginning of time; threesomes…gang bangs…same sex activity and yes, so much more. Although, activity like that is often described as deviant.  The only behavior I define as deviant is behavior that has a harmful effect on myself or another, so yet again it comes back to the agreement between two people. The trick is finding someone who shares your preferences or at least is willing to experiment.

One of my favorite sexual partners is a perfect example of this. He is extremely confident in his sexuality and not threatened by including other people in the mix, whether it be men or women, and I have to tell you that I find that quality, confidence, extremely sexy. Don’t misunderstand me, he is more than enough man for me…extremely well endowed, fun and super intelligent.  This particular combination drives me absolutely wild!  He actually encourages me to play with other men.  It gets him so hard to see another man fuck my pussy…slide his cock all the way down my throat…bury that big cock in my tight ass and he will clean me up after it’s all done.  As a matter of fact, he will even share that cock with me…kiss me with it between our lips…swallow it down his throat and yes, take it deep in his ass.  There is nothing more sexy than a man who has no sexual hangups and just lives in the moment. Even more than that, if something turns me on, it turns him on too because he loves to see me excited.

Now if this isn’t something you find intriguing or are willing to try then try mixing it up in other ways. Change up positions or locations, even the order of activity.  Try skipping the foreplay and going straight to the main event.  Buy a new outfit or change your look, even women like when their men to look hot in a new sexy outfit 🙂  Of course keeping in shape is just as important.  You should want to do that for yourself as well as your lover.  Tell your lover to meet you at a bar and pretend you don’t know each other and then flirt with them.  These little things might sound silly, but trust me, it will keep your partner engaged. That’s what it’s all about.  People have enough routine in their day to day life.  It should not be included in their sex life as well.

On that note, I will leave you with one more piece of advice.  If you set the groundwork for open sexual discussions, it will always benefit you as well as your partner.  Communication is key.  Don’t you want to be challenged…ignite that lustful fire?  I know I do. The only way you are really going to know what turns you on is to try it and to let your lover know what you want.  No is boring.  Yes is possibility and I always say yes.  Just call me and find out how open to yes I really am!